In My Life - what's happening in your life currently? | Page 8 | Fab Forum

Please consider registering
Guest

sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register

Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search

— Forum Scope —





— Match —





— Forum Options —





Minimum search word length is 4 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters

sp_Feed sp_TopicIcon
In My Life - what's happening in your life currently?
No permission to create posts
15 May 2014
7.14am
ScrambledEggs
Behind the moon
Hollywood Bowl
Forum Posts: 331
Member Since:
16 December 2013
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
141sp_Permalink sp_Print

Thank you all for the support. You have no idea how much I needed to hear some words of encouragement. It feels like I've had none of those lately. Everyone's used to my excelling in school and expect it to just proceed that way. I've applied to every scholarship there is to apply to, although I know it's little likely I'll get a scholarship here in my country, but All I've Got To Do is get through this first year of university and then safely transfer to Germany. That shouldn't be difficult, yeah? I'm trying to be as positive as possible.

 

@MrMoonlight, stay off the pills. They won't help you. Perhaps temporarily they can, but on the long run they do the opposite of help. You don't want to go down that road, it's not worth it. Build your own 'pills' in a way of finding ways to convince yourself to go back to normal whenever anxiety or depression takes over. The fact that you acknowledge that you have are problem is proof that you can fix it on your own. Most anxious/depressed/bipolar (or any mental disorder of the matter) have trouble opening up and deny having a problem. You are one step ahead, so take advantage of it. Smile, talk to another girl, fall in love, do anything besides sitting on the computer, really. Go out for a walk. You can't expect it to go away with pills. Only you can kick it out of your system :)

15 May 2014
10.27am
Joe
Pepperland
Admin
Forum Posts: 4060
Member Since:
31 March 2008
sp_UserOnlineSmall Online
142sp_Permalink sp_Print

In your opinion. I know at least two people whose lives have been saved by SSRIs, anti-psychotics and other forms of medication. The key thing is to get a good doctor who works with the patient to prescribe the most appropriate treatment, adjusting it accordingly as things get better or worse. The treatment might be a change in lifestyle or meds to redress a chemical imbalance, but I'm not sure it's a call for well-meaning internet strangers to make.

Talking of illness, I've been in bed for three days with the flu. Finally resurfacing online.

Please don't spoil my day; I'm miles away

Can buy me love! Please consider using these links to support the Beatles Bible: Amazon | iTunes

15 May 2014
1.22pm
Mr. Kite
910 Penny Lane, Strawberry Fields, Pepperland
Apple rooftop
Forum Posts: 6004
Member Since:
4 February 2014
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Joe said
The treatment might be a change in lifestyle or meds to redress a chemical imbalance, but I'm not sure it's a call for well-meaning internet strangers to make.

@MrMoonlight I agree with Joe there, it's your life and your decision. For myself, I'd be against taking anything for mental ailments (I even avoid a lot for physical ailments), but if its helping, why should you stop? If its not helping then I agree with the last part of Scrambledeggs' post.

Glad you're getting better @Joe, hope you feel great soon!

And Im glad everything seems to be working out with you @ScrambledEggs. Good luck with your upcoming year!

If I spoke prose you'd all find out, I don't know what I talk about.

Can buy Joe love!
If you're shopping at one of these two websites use the links below to support the Beatles Bible:

Amazon | iTunes

15 May 2014
2.13pm
MrMoonlight
Alone in the clouds all blue...
Rishikesh
Forum Posts: 829
Member Since:
2 April 2014
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I can't really deny the meds. There's a big difference between medicine to give you a bit of a boost and medicine to actually make it possible to function on a daily basis, the latter of which is what I need. Hell, even her name is a trigger for me. It's terrifying and I want to be able to do something, which I can't.

Mal's got a mop and another glass of orange juice!
~He pulled the mirrors off his Cadillac
'Cause he doesn't like it looking like he looks back~

15 May 2014
2.28pm
ScrambledEggs
Behind the moon
Hollywood Bowl
Forum Posts: 331
Member Since:
16 December 2013
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
145sp_Permalink sp_Print

Yes, I was stating my opinion, but my lifelong experience as well. I don't expect anyone to take my advice nor to believe a word I say. The least I'm trying to do is decide what is best for another person. I only wanted to point out a different perspective. I speak from what I've learnt from my own disorder which is in a very difficult stage, as well as the disorders of a dozen of people I am constantly around. Most people here can't afford medication so we have to learn to deal with everything another way. Please don't take me out of context and please don't understand me wrong. I am not an expert and I'm not trying to be one.

The following people thank ScrambledEggs for this post:

trcanberra
15 May 2014
3.37pm
Ahhh Girl
sailing on a winedark open sea
Moderator


Forum Posts: 9347
Member Since:
20 August 2013
sp_UserOnlineSmall Online
146sp_Permalink sp_Print

@Bungalow Bob, this is for you. I just saw the sign quickly out of the taxi window.
Glyfada.JPG

The following people thank Ahhh Girl for this post:

Bungalow Bob
15 May 2014
3.59pm
Bungalow Bob
Seattle, Washington
Hollywood Bowl
Forum Posts: 356
Member Since:
16 September 2013
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
147sp_Permalink sp_Print

Ahhh Girl said
@Bungalow Bob, this is for you. I just saw the sign quickly out of the taxi window.
Glyfada.JPG

Great timing, Ahhh Girl! I am going to lunch in a few hours at my former boss' new Greek restaurant, and I will be sure to order "Chicken Glyfada." And if its not on the menu, I'll ask if they can improvise it. That will be sure to impress the restaurant staff. Or annoy them. ;-)

Glyfada is the ritziest, fancy-pants suburb of Athens. Its nicknames include the "Beverly Hills of Greece," the "Hellenic Hamptons," or "Knightsbridge-on-sea," for our Beatles Bible friends in UK.

15 May 2014
4.01pm
MrMoonlight
Alone in the clouds all blue...
Rishikesh
Forum Posts: 829
Member Since:
2 April 2014
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
148sp_Permalink sp_Print

Trying not to think about a certain person and failing miserably.

Mal's got a mop and another glass of orange juice!
~He pulled the mirrors off his Cadillac
'Cause he doesn't like it looking like he looks back~

15 May 2014
4.05pm
meanmistermustard
Moderator



Forum Posts: 15011
Member Since:
1 May 2011
sp_UserOnlineSmall Online
149sp_Permalink sp_Print

Do something, anything to get your mind to go elsewhere. Trying not to think about something only leads to thinking about what you dont want to think about.

Put music on, the tv, pick up a book or magazine and read it, surf the interweb, go outside and count clouds, do some baking, stroke a cat or dog (if you dont have one of your own get the neighbours), cut a tree, paint the house, do some housework. 

The following people thank meanmistermustard for this post:

Mr. Kite, Annadog40
Don’t make your love suffer insecurities, trade the baggage of self to set another one free. ('Paper Skin' - Kendall Payne)
15 May 2014
4.11pm
Annadog40
I am here you are here we are here and we are all together
Apple rooftop
Forum Posts: 8135
Member Since:
1 November 2013
sp_UserOnlineSmall Online
150sp_Permalink sp_Print

MrMoonlight said
Trying not to think about a certain person and failing miserably.

Do you play video games?

Never say never, cause it's never 'never'

 

If you can't log in or can't access the forum, then head over to the unofficial back up forum and someone will help

15 May 2014
6.54pm
Linde
The Netherlands
Apple rooftop
Forum Posts: 2557
Member Since:
21 November 2012
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
151sp_Permalink sp_Print

ScrambledEggs, that's the spirit! So what if it takes you a bit longer to get there? As long as you'll be able to follow your dreams, what does it matter? My journey to university was a year longer than planned too, but that didn't stop me. It took a bit longer, but now I'm doing the thing I love. It's better to do your best to realize your dreams, then to be okay with doing something you don't really want. And if it doesn't work out, then at least you've tried.

Mr. Moonlight: I actually agree with Joe on the meds thing. A good doctor is very important, and proper medication can really help you out. Sure, your problems won't disappear, but medication can help you deal with them better and in a different way. If it helps you, just continue. Do whatever feels right for you. I think that finding the right distractions might send you in the right way too.

I would personally be a bit scared to take anything against mental problems. I don't know what it is. 

My mom came home with some bad news, which I don't know how to deal with. I don't really want to tell what it is, but I just wanted to let this out. Hearing it did something with me.

The following people thank Linde for this post:

ScrambledEggs
15 May 2014
7.37pm
AppleScruffJunior
Sitting here doing nothing but procrastinating
Apple rooftop
Forum Posts: 2904
Member Since:
18 March 2013
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Just having enough time to post this now:

@ScrambledEggs Good on you, if life has thought me anything it's that there is a way to do anything! An extra year may act as a benefit to you in the long-term to your knowledge of German anyways. The more time to study-the better your German will be (and we'll be in a German university at the same time :P ).

@MrMoonlight I agree with Joe's original advice, take up a new hobby (whether it be cycling, acting whatever). Creative writing and reading are great means of escapism (for me anyways).

 

In My Life: Loud noises in my school are really irritating me (people slamming their hands on desks, tapping pencils, scraping their shoes on the ground and people talking). Ugh!

INTROVERTS UNITE! Separately....in your own homes!

Make Love, Not Wardrobes!

15 May 2014
7.40pm
Beatleva
In my life
Candlestick Park
Forum Posts: 652
Member Since:
8 April 2014
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
153sp_Permalink sp_Print

@MrMoonlight, I only read your story today. Wow... it seems pretty terrible. Hope you're doing ok...

I agree with @Linde about the medication, do what feels right for you. But also try to think about positive things, maybe you could do something like yoga or meditation, something that will make you relax. And listen to The Beatles!!! The Beatles always make me feel happy. 

I hope you'll cheer up! 

Eva

PS. Sorry if I'm horrible at making people feel better, just not my thing...

15 May 2014
7.46pm
Linde
The Netherlands
Apple rooftop
Forum Posts: 2557
Member Since:
21 November 2012
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
154sp_Permalink sp_Print

AppleScruffJunior said

In My Life: Loud noises in my school are really irritating me (people slamming their hands on desks, tapping pencils, scrapping their shoes on the ground and people talking). Ugh!

You could add that to your never-ending list of pet peevesa-hard-days-night-george-10

15 May 2014
7.55pm
meanmistermustard
Moderator



Forum Posts: 15011
Member Since:
1 May 2011
sp_UserOnlineSmall Online
155sp_Permalink sp_Print

Linde said

My mom came home with some bad news, which I don't know how to deal with. I don't really want to tell what it is, but I just wanted to let this out. Hearing it did something with me.

I hope whatever it is isn't too serious and a way ahead comes apparent to deal with it for yourself and with your mum.

 

As for medication its down to the person, the situation and what the experts say, there is no one rule for all way of life. 

I've been given medication from one doctor which has almost immediately been taken away from another saying its unnecessary. I was also told by one expert i was to undergo tests only for another to come along and say the test would be utterly pointless and cancel it.

 

One thing you should do @MrMoonlight  is find a hobby, something that you can really focus your mind and free time on. Start stamp collecting, wood-work, book reviewing (Joe is wondering if folk here would be interested in it) or whatever you want to do (i recall Joe saying the same thing previously). It doesnt have to be expensive and who knows where it might lead.

Don’t make your love suffer insecurities, trade the baggage of self to set another one free. ('Paper Skin' - Kendall Payne)
15 May 2014
9.45pm
AppleScruffJunior
Sitting here doing nothing but procrastinating
Apple rooftop
Forum Posts: 2904
Member Since:
18 March 2013
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
156sp_Permalink sp_Print

Linde said

AppleScruffJunior said

In My Life: Loud noises in my school are really irritating me (people slamming their hands on desks, tapping pencils, scrapping their shoes on the ground and people talking). Ugh!

You could add that to your never-ending list of pet peevesa-hard-days-night-george-10

If I'm like this now as a teenager, what will I be llike as an old person. "Hey kids get off my lawn" *blasts shotgun*.

Oh and I hope you're feeling better. Sending heart Can we get a Beatle hug smiley, I have no idea how'd you do it but for the meantime this shall suffice:

tumblr_loemmfj6yc1qgvcls.gif

a-hard-days-night-george-10

The following people thank AppleScruffJunior for this post:

Annadog40

INTROVERTS UNITE! Separately....in your own homes!

Make Love, Not Wardrobes!

16 May 2014
3.17pm
parlance
Slaggers
Apple rooftop
Forum Posts: 7095
Member Since:
8 November 2012
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
157sp_Permalink sp_Print

Watching Paul's video for "Appreciate." :-D

parlance

Beware of sadness. It can hit you. It can hurt you. Make you sore and what is more, that is not what you are here for. - George

Check out my fan video for Paul's song "Appreciate" at Vimeo or YouTube.

17 May 2014
4.47pm
LikeASir
Ed Sullivan Show
Forum Posts: 175
Member Since:
29 August 2013
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Noticing how my dress sense is getter more and more like Sam Tyler's from Life on Mars. And my expressions.

ghgfhgfhf.png

The following people thank LikeASir for this post:

Annadog40

"White Album - My joint-fave Beatles album along with Revolver. They show the two sides of Beatles. Revolver's very controlled - even though it's also very innovative. The White Album's playful and almost ramshackle. It's like a scrapbook kept by a genius. Fantastic stuff."

17 May 2014
9.34pm
MrMoonlight
Alone in the clouds all blue...
Rishikesh
Forum Posts: 829
Member Since:
2 April 2014
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
159sp_Permalink sp_Print

Hey guys, thanks for your responses earlier. I'm doing the best I can with my hobbies, although that's still not distracting me, even with my anti-anxiety medicine which is supposed to be kicking in by now. I guess, really, it's all I want. All i've dreamed for and hoped for. I'd be the happiest guy ever if it happened.

Mal's got a mop and another glass of orange juice!
~He pulled the mirrors off his Cadillac
'Cause he doesn't like it looking like he looks back~

17 May 2014
10.44pm
MrMoonlight
Alone in the clouds all blue...
Rishikesh
Forum Posts: 829
Member Since:
2 April 2014
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
160sp_Permalink sp_Print

Don;t you hate it when your first ever friends don'yt understand you

Mal's got a mop and another glass of orange juice!
~He pulled the mirrors off his Cadillac
'Cause he doesn't like it looking like he looks back~

No permission to create posts
Forum Timezone: America/Chicago

Most Users Ever Online: 597

Currently Online: Joe, Zig, meanmistermustard, Into the Sky with Diamonds, Ahhh Girl, Annadog40, xskelterhelterx, georgiewood
54 Guest(s)

Currently Browsing this Page: Zig, Ahhh Girl
2 Guest(s)

Top Posters:

meanmistermustard: 15006

Ahhh Girl: 9343

Annadog40: 8134

parlance: 7095

mr. Sun king coming together: 6975

Zig: 6729

Mr. Kite: 6004

mithveaen: 4633

trcanberra: 4382

Ron Nasty: 4360

Member Stats:

Guest Posters: 88

Members: 3079

Moderators: 4

Admins: 2

Forum Stats:

Groups: 3

Forums: 34

Topics: 3520

Posts: 183351

Newest Members: Living in A yellow submarine, Things We Said Today, WhenWeWasFab, ClaireIsYolk

Moderators: Ahhh Girl: 9343, meanmistermustard: 15006, Zig: 6729, Joe: 4057

Administrators: Joe: 4057, Ellie: 1

Members Birthdays
sp_BirthdayIcon
Today: Amber1965
Upcoming: None