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In My Life - what's happening in your life currently?
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13 April 2014
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Still sorting out the separation down here.  Trying to sell an 'investment' property that has been losing money for over 3 years - It's So Hard to sell a place and cover its mortgage when you have no money for marketing, mandatory inspections, legal fees etc etc.  Still chasing a job, sorting out finances and living arrangements and having a bunch of x-rays, CT and MRI for something which has decided to manifest in the middle of all this.

Otherwise, all good.  It's the morning of a new week, I have coffee, lots of new music to listen to (up to Help in the US box tonite) - so there is lots of good to go with the not so good.

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13 April 2014
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Mr. Kite
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trcanberra said
Still sorting out the separation down here.  Trying to sell an 'investment' property that has been losing money for over 3 years -
It's So Hard to sell a place and cover its mortgage when you have no money for marketing, mandatory inspections, legal fees etc etc.  Still chasing a job, sorting out finances and living arrangements and having a bunch of x-rays, CT and MRI for something which has decided to manifest in the middle of all this.

Otherwise, all good.  It's the morning of a new week, I have coffee, lots of new music to listen to (up to Help in the US box tonite) - so there is lots of good to go with the not so good.

Good luck with the not so good! Happy to see someone looking on the positive side in the midst of issues.

If I spoke prose you'd all find out, I don't know what I talk about.

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14 April 2014
10.43am
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MrMoonlight said
Again, thanks for being considerate everyone. I really am just in a bad place in which I can't see myself getting out of. I know @ScrambledEggs said not to get a reassessment, but I have to and I've got no choice in the matter. I'm just constantly panicking about it and I know I can't change anything and I know I still love her and I know I can't do anything about it and I know I've got to move on and I know it's hard but I can't. I physically can't. I don't know what it is, whether it's some kind of obsessive disorder, but I'm just like a brick wall. Things are going through one ear and out the other. Advice telling me to keep away is deflected and it doesn't stay. Advice on what I can do to give myself a chance with her can change my whole life around temporarily, and that's not an exaggeration. I don't know why, but it's just like that. And to be frank - I'm scared. It's killing me from the inside and making me hopeless. I only see what I want, and I don't know why. Nothing is changing me anymore, especially since everyone's telling me to give up, and every time somebody does, it drives me deeper into a hole of despair. It's falling off a cliff and having to accept the fate. I just can't do it. I really, really can't. I would do anything to re-do this year so I had a chance. I'm terrified.

@MrMoonlight, I'm sorry if I sounded glib in my original message ("get some hobbies!" etc). That wasn't my intention. I was speaking as someone prone to introspection who has lapsed into depression on occasion, and I found, for me, distractions are far better than dwelling (I actually started this website to keep the black dog off my shoulder; thankfully he's long gone). But it sounds like your issues go deeper and I'm glad you're getting professional help.

Make sure you get the help you need, and don't be left to lapse even further. You might not be able to see a way out, but others can show you some coping strategies. My wife is a psychologist who has treated all kinds of horrors (sorry, she can't offer online help) and I know people's lives can be turned around. You're not beyond hope, so work through it, don't close yourself off and don't give up on yourself.

But still don't take any notice of what the idiots in your school think. That advice definitely still stands.

In my life? For my day job I'm writing about Dylan Thomas, Peter Blake and The Beatles, and trying to get an interview with a 60s musical legend (no, not who you're thinking). I'm also planning stuff on the 30th anniversary of the miners' strike in the UK, and I'm setting up a film shoot with an 80s singer and looking for locations. It's quite fun.

2 May 2014
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... or mere minutes until the phone rings. So easily distracted. But I managed to snag a few pics:

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2 May 2014
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2 May 2014
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2 May 2014
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The drums of Mr Kite and, separately, something with the rhythm track of Pepper reprise as it rocks without all the other stuff with it.

 

To get the thread on track i've just ripped Give My Regards To Broad Street to itunes so its ready to sync to my ipod when done with Pipes Of Peace. The excitement levels are off the scale.

Don’t make your love suffer insecurities, trade the baggage of self to set another one free. ('Paper Skin' - Kendall Payne)
3 May 2014
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meanmistermustard said

To get the thread on track i've just ripped Give My Regards To Broad Street to itunes so its ready to sync to my ipod when done with Pipes Of Peace. The excitement levels are off the scale.

I can just feel your excitement... I got the LP... Still have only listened to the first half...

@MrMoonlight Excited to hear your work!

And on topic: I'm playing my guitar, just played Wonderful Tonight, but not gonna memorize that now, gonna work on some blues technique!

If I spoke prose you'd all find out, I don't know what I talk about.

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