Please consider registering
Guest
sp_LogInOut Log Insp_Registration Register
Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
sp_Feed sp_TopicIcon
Facebook
14 April 2011
11.12pm
Avatar
MeanMrsMustard
Nowhere Land
Rishikesh
Members
Forum Posts: 2702
Member Since:
9 June 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
121sp_Permalink sp_Print

mr. Sun king coming together said:

Apparently people, on average, have 150 Facebook friends.

Two Words: REALLY SAD

My mother has 1011 friends, and she knows 1010 of them. (There's one person she added because she had the same name as someone else she knows, and she didn't have the heart to unfriend her.) 

I have 235 friends. There are about 15 I don't know, and they're all Fab Forum people. 

You're wrong about the “average person not knowing 150 people” bit, by the way. We know a lot more people than we realize. It's just that we can't name them off the top of our heads. For example, most classes in the area I'm from have about 30 students in them. (The classes at my old school were theoretically capped at 25, but there were almost invariably 3 more students in each class.) In this average class, there are only a couple of them who don't have Facebook accounts, and there are a couple more I wouldn't add because they're rude to me. I have eight classes at school. Four of them are “repeat” classes with the same group of people. Plus, there are about 30 other kids who I don't share any classes with, but I know from being in shows with. 
Add that to people in my neighborhood and my family members, and I end up having a lot more Facebook friends than I realized.  

If I seem to act unkind, it's only me, it's not my mind that is confusing things.

14 April 2011
11.20pm
mr. Sun king coming together
Nowhere Land
Apple rooftop
Members
Forum Posts: 6402
Member Since:
19 September 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
122sp_Permalink sp_Print

But you're not an average person. You're an awesome person. Big difference.

As if it matters how a man falls down.'

'When the fall's all that's left, it matters a great deal.

15 April 2011
2.27am
Avatar
StarWisher
Candlestick Park
Members
Forum Posts: 1149
Member Since:
25 November 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
123sp_Permalink sp_Print

My excuse is I moved around a lot and I'm older 😛

"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love." — Dr. Seuss

 

 

15 April 2011
3.21am
Avatar
MeanMrsMustard
Nowhere Land
Rishikesh
Members
Forum Posts: 2702
Member Since:
9 June 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
124sp_Permalink sp_Print

Well, it's surprising how many people the average person who doesn't live in his mother's basement (it's a cliché, I know) knows. 

If I seem to act unkind, it's only me, it's not my mind that is confusing things.

15 April 2011
3.45am
sarah machinella
Shea Stadium
Members
Forum Posts: 875
Member Since:
8 April 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
125sp_Permalink sp_Print

I don't see how 150 friends is “really sad”… When you factor in friends from primary school, friends from high school and the odd Beatles Bibler here and there, you're going to get more than 150, chances are. My high school has about 1200 kids, and my primary had about 350. 

Most people I know have at the very least 200 friends on Facebook. Some of my friends on Facebook aren't really close friends, but they're not “random adds” or anything.

 

On the other hand, my brother has about 650 friends, most of which appear to be 13 year old sluts, so that's slightly ridiculous. I always get annoyed when I see on my news feed “hey thanks for the add xx do i no u?” “nah random add soz hope u don't mind lol xx”

Dude, seriously? a-hard-days-night-ringo-13

And that's my grumble for the day.

15 April 2011
4.02am
Avatar
StarWisher
Candlestick Park
Members
Forum Posts: 1149
Member Since:
25 November 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
126sp_Permalink sp_Print

The best story I have with one of my friends on Facebook but not in real life is this: I just one day searched my name, the way I go by, and messaged everyone who shared my exact name asking if we could be friends because I just wanted to see how another StarWisher lived, and one actually did. It's kind of funny, because she's from the same general area I am.

"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love." — Dr. Seuss

 

 

15 April 2011
5.11am
Avatar
Blue Nicey
Out paradin’
Paris Olympia
Members
Forum Posts: 365
Member Since:
13 January 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
127sp_Permalink sp_Print

StarWisher said:

I'm debating friending people on here on my Facebook account, but I kinda like to keep it to people I know in real life. There are *some* exceptions, but it just works like that for me.

I'm still on the fence.

I’m the same way about only adding people I know in real life, but I decided to add my fellow BBFFers because I feel like you’re all my friends anyway. 🙂 (Awwww!) heart

 

Speaking of, there are two friend requests sitting in my box … Somebody claim them because I don’t recognize the names.

Favorite Starbucks drink: Chai, baby, Chai.

15 April 2011
6.55am
sarah machinella
Shea Stadium
Members
Forum Posts: 875
Member Since:
8 April 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
128sp_Permalink sp_Print

Hmm… What are their first names? I might be able to tell you who they are.

15 April 2011
11.20pm
Avatar
MeanMrsMustard
Nowhere Land
Rishikesh
Members
Forum Posts: 2702
Member Since:
9 June 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
129sp_Permalink sp_Print

Paulrus said:

I don't see how 150 friends is “really sad”… When you factor in friends from primary school, friends from high school and the odd Beatles Bibler here and there, you're going to get more than 150, chances are. 

Don't forget family members, and people you meet at camp or other activities, or coworkers when you get a job, or…

There are also some profiles that are more like “like” pages.” (For example: Someone from my high school made a Facebook page for it. They put “Quarry Bank*” in the “first name” spot and “High” in the “last name” spot. It's really funny when people's accounts get spammed and they send messages like “Hey Quarry Bank, when I got this free iPad offer I thought of you.”) 

 

 

 

*not my school's real name

If I seem to act unkind, it's only me, it's not my mind that is confusing things.

19 April 2011
4.20am
Avatar
JET!
Rockin' in two by two
Ed Sullivan Show
Members
Forum Posts: 497
Member Since:
14 November 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
130sp_Permalink sp_Print

StarWisher said:

I'm debating friending people on here on my Facebook account, but I kinda like to keep it to people I know in real life. There are *some* exceptions, but it just works like that for me.

I'm still on the fence.

This. I'm a fence-sitter too. considering making a second account for this kind of purpose, but I don't know if I could keep up.

The sunshine bores the daylights outta me

19 April 2011
8.33pm
Avatar
Till There Was You
:^)
Paris Olympia
Members
Forum Posts: 390
Member Since:
19 March 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
131sp_Permalink sp_Print

I don't have a Facebook. I'm old enough to have one, but my father wont let me. I know so many people that have them, that I want to make one… Too bad :^/

I salute the lady who screamed "I love you Paul!" at a tribute band's concert.

19 April 2011
8.39pm
mr. Sun king coming together
Nowhere Land
Apple rooftop
Members
Forum Posts: 6402
Member Since:
19 September 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
132sp_Permalink sp_Print

I fail to see the point. I haven't even asked for one yet, but yet, I live. It's life.

As if it matters how a man falls down.'

'When the fall's all that's left, it matters a great deal.

19 April 2011
8.43pm
Avatar
Till There Was You
:^)
Paris Olympia
Members
Forum Posts: 390
Member Since:
19 March 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Yeah. I sometimes don't get the point of Facebook. for some things, like forums, I get why we don't go out to coffee and see each other. But if I know the person in real life, I might do just that.

I salute the lady who screamed "I love you Paul!" at a tribute band's concert.

19 April 2011
10.31pm
toryst
The Jacaranda
Members
Forum Posts: 31
Member Since:
12 January 2009
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
134sp_Permalink sp_Print

I quit facebook.  It's a good idea but, for me, the original purpose to keep in contact with family and friends went by the wayside.  I got tired of game requests, drama, misinformation, attitude, changes and the privacy problem.  

 

Give me a good ol' fashion forum any day!!  a-hard-days-night-paul-11 to facebook 🙂 

19 April 2011
11.12pm
StrawberryLakiesha
Ed Sullivan Show
Guests
Forum Posts: 442
Member Since:
4 March 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
135sp_Permalink sp_Print

toryst said:

I quit facebook.  It's a good idea but, for me, the original purpose to keep in contact with family and friends went by the wayside.  I got tired of game requests, drama, misinformation, attitude, changes and the privacy problem.  

 

Give me a good ol' fashion forum any day!!  a-hard-days-night-paul-11 to facebook 🙂 

I'm sorry to hear about your loss, Mr[s]. Toryst. AND WELCOME TO THE FORUM!!!Q1Q1!!!!!!!!!~!!~spaul-mccartneyapple01apple01apple01apple01apple01

ONE MINUTE YOU'RE DEFENDING THE WHOLE GALAXY, AND SUDDENLY, YOU FIND YOURSELF SUCKING DOWN DARJEELING WITH MARIE ANTOINETTE AND HER LITTLE SISTER.!

Forum Timezone: Europe/London
Most Users Ever Online: 700
Currently Online:
Guest(s) 1
Top Posters:
Starr Shine?: 16105
Ron Nasty: 12534
Zig: 9832
50yearslate: 8759
Necko: 8043
AppleScruffJunior: 7583
parlance: 7111
mr. Sun king coming together: 6402
Mr. Kite: 6147
trcanberra: 6064
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 88
Members: 2858
Moderators: 5
Admins: 1
Forum Stats:
Groups: 3
Forums: 44
Topics: 5519
Posts: 380519
Newest Members:
katybphoto, sleeptalker, Lovethebeatles, vtrop, nickygrangery
Moderators: Joe: 5694, meanmistermustard: 24964, Ahhh Girl: 22223, Beatlebug: 18182, The Hole Got Fixed: 8410
Administrators: Joe: 5694